overgeeked
B/X Known World
In the original sense of old guard with experience who you should really consider listening to, I don’t mind it. In the more modern sense of grumpy old jerk, not so much.
Your post was one of the posts I read this morning but it wasn't the one that annoyed me, it was in an older discussion I was reading and didn't participate in so no worries. Don't forget, I even said I was a grumpy old man .I try not to make everything about me, but I'm guessing that it was this post of mine that annoyed you, @Hex08 . If it was I who offended you, I apologize. It was not my intent to use the word as a pejorative. Although my post did not make this explicitly clear, the gamers who I used the term to describe, aged 50-65, had all cut their gaming teeth with AD&D, and I thought the term appropriate given the fact that, in my anecdote, they and I were waxing nostalgic about AD&D rules. What I did not make clear is that, in the post's context, I consider myself a "grognard" too (if not even more so). I see now how my poor wording could make it seem that I positioned myself as an other, a non-grognard, judging grognards. That was not my intent. But, regardless of my intent, I now understand that the word I used carries negative connotations for some, and I'll be more careful with its use in the future.
This, though when I self-identify as a grognard, it’s usually because I am about to be at least mildly grumpy and threaten kids about remaining on my lawn. But then, I use it in a slightly self-deprecating but loving way, the way sailors might have a fondness for being called a salty sea dog by friends or those giving them a little respect while simultaneously making them aware they are being grumpy. The word can connote both “seasoned” and “a little impatient due to not wanting to suffer perceived fools” at the same time.In the original sense of old guard with experience who you should really consider listening to, I don’t mind it. In the more modern sense of grumpy old jerk, not so much.
My mother gave me the Blue Box Basic Set I’d begged for in 1980 for my eleventh birthday and my friends and I played Holmes Basic for a few months before switching to AD&D the following spring. I played first edition long past the expiration date; even though I bought the 2e books when they came out, I didn’t play in a 2e campaign until 1996, and I only played 2e for a few years, forced to give it up when I moved away for graduate school. I ended up taking a twenty year hiatus from the game altogether, and I didn’t play again until a friend raved to me about 5e in 2019, which when I started playing again.Your post was one of the posts I read this morning but it wasn't the one that annoyed me, it was in an older discussion I was reading and didn't participate in so no worries. Don't forget, I even said I was a grumpy old man .
I will be turning 57 next month and started playing with the Moldvay Basic and Expert sets and AD&D 1E so I am definitely an old school gamer. My fondest memories are of AD&D is 2E and I played D&D through 3.x/Pathfinder 1E. When I want to play a D&D style game I sometimes run Castles and Crusades because of it's simplicity and old school feel. However, I have played tons of different games and l usually run newer games..